Dear Husband

Dear husband; congrats on your new status. You thought you would have gotten over the ladies and single ex girlfriends but does it seem like they find you more attractive?

You are at a critical phase in your life because God hates when you cheat on your wife. If you married a born again sister, God has just become your father in law and be rest assured that your acts of infidelity will not go unpunished.

I will give you some reasons why women are all over you now:

1. You are now certified responsible: in every sense of the word, you are catering for more than yourself. If you take good care of your wife, it's proof that you are a good husband. A responsible man who showers his wife with good things is an attractive man. All kinds of women will love you for it.

2. Your wife will mentor you: Oh yes, she will! If you liked shouting, your wife would teach you to calm down, if you liked dressing anyhow, she would help you to dress well. If you were a one minute man on the bed, your wife would help you become a better lover. A well dressed, cultured man with sexual prowess is very attractive to all kinds of women. How can other women tell if you have these qualities? Your wife will glow and she will be happy.

3. Nobody eats in an empty restaurant; for some reason, people like to eat where many others are eating, people like to gather where people are gathered. Have you ever heard the phrase "all the good men are taken?". There's something attractive about what belongs to others, God saw that need in man to covet and take what belongs to others that He made it one of the 10 commandments: "Thou shall not covet what belongs to your neighbour".

As you can see my brother, it's easy for you to go over to the other side but let the fear of God preserve you; if God is your source, your success is tied to how well you treat your wife; the bible said in 1 Peter 3:7 (MSG) Be good husbands to your wives. Honour them, delight in them. As women they lack some of your advantages. But in the new life of God’s grace, you’re equals. Treat your wives, then, as equals so your prayers don’t run aground.

Your money is also tied to your wife, the bible said in Malachi 2:14 You cry out, "Why doesn't the LORD accept my worship?" I'll tell you why! Because the LORD witnessed the vows you and your wife made when you were young. But you have been unfaithful to her, though she remained your faithful partner, the wife of your marriage vows.

Dear husband, if God does not listen to your prayers and He doesn't accept your worship because of how you treat your wife then nothing will work for you.

May God help us all in Jesus name. Amen

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Jesus is Lord. Shalom

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